For anyone with ears to hear there is but one question and one answer: Will we wait patiently for a single moment of relationship with what is eternal and real, where, with the touch of something timeless, all the moments of our life are forever changed? Otherwise we waste the few moments of our life chasing the pleasure of an imagined time to come that forever recedes from our grasp in the same instant that we reach for it. Real power, real fearlessness, is knowing that there's only one reason life changes as it does: It is to reveal the secret Goodness underlying those same changes.
My answer is YES. That moment came recently in my life, I was not reaching for it and it bulldozed right into me. All the moments of my life HAVE changed forever. After three years of being single and lots of time working on me the universe opened it's hands and said "here you go time to move up to the next level." It was eternal, real and timeless. Easeful, beautiful and wonderful. Something in me told me not to resist but to show up and see what happens. From here forward I have no idea or expectation as to where it's all going but I know it will be a great adventure. I am filled with gratitude for all those who have helped me get here, for those who have become my family and for everything that broke my heart.
That's how I got here now and that's why I am who I am.

Welcome to my inquiry into love, life and relating. This is a constantly evolving look at how life gives you what you need in the moment. Whether it be a challenge in a loving relationship or business relationship the experiences we go through are there to teach us something about ourselves. To bring us to that next gate and leave us with the choice to proceed or stay. I will be putting my experiences, thoughts, insights and things that cross my path out there for analysis and collaborative commenting. It is my intention to both find answers to my questions and to provide answers and insights to yours!